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Posted by admin My dear Jil, there’s such a thing as emotional stinginess. You can’t be emotionally stingy in your relationship. You want a boyfriend who fawns over you, telling you he loves you… But you deliberately hold back on reciprocation. You don’t want to be emotionally forthcoming, or even gracious, just so you’ll be in control of the relationship. It smacks of meanness, borders on coldness, manipulatedness and hardness. It’s a narcissus complex. If the guy adopts the same self-induced emotional constipation what do you think will happen? There’s that ding-dong between boys and girls – who’ll blink first, who’ll say “I love you” first, who’s turn it is next… The artificiality of emotional metrics thus unleashed says a lot about the quality of such relationship! A deliberate suppression of emotions evinces insecurity. There’s no sincerity. Yet you expect sincere expressions of love. Can’t you see the selfishness? This is not about playing hard to get. It’s all about con...

Posted by Admin Akindolani Oluwasegun Michael @segunakindolani Too many empty 'rich men' around! What is the point of flaunting around with ego the possession of physical structures and some material affluence when been neck-deep into debt. The burden of debt is slavery and ultimate disaster. No wonder their victims live on drugs and end up with all manners of disease due to high blood pressure. In most cases, this is because it becomes terrible if the banks or financial institutions borrowed from suddenly request an outright payment. It will become calamitous for most of them and that might meant loosing the collateral security laid down. They deceive themselves thinking they can fool people about living a rich life but they are empty. The staffs of the organizations or companies they manage becomes their tools for savagery. They grind out the very life out of them in the name of delivering results that are in most cases inhumane and unrealistic. I won't be s...