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STAY FOCUSED ON WHAT YOU WANT Whatever you regard as the centre of your attention will be a driving force towards the manifestation of your desire. Your brain will collect that message and help you maintain your awareness around your thoughts. That is the reason we must learn to focus on things that produce meaningful results. Focusing is a powerful technique used to keep your mind fixed on your targeted goals, to stay happy and have a fulfilling life. However, when you are going through a difficult time, your attention can be too focused on how much you are suffering as a result of the terrible situation. Your mind becomes occupied with unpleasant thoughts till you get so obsessed with your problem. The more you dwell on how bad you feel, the more miserable you become. This feeling can go on for an extended period depending on the magnitude of the situation; it could begin to make you feel drained and prevent you from enjoying other beautiful things going on around you....

Posted by admin My dear Jil, there’s such a thing as emotional stinginess. You can’t be emotionally stingy in your relationship. You want a boyfriend who fawns over you, telling you he loves you… But you deliberately hold back on reciprocation. You don’t want to be emotionally forthcoming, or even gracious, just so you’ll be in control of the relationship. It smacks of meanness, borders on coldness, manipulatedness and hardness. It’s a narcissus complex. If the guy adopts the same self-induced emotional constipation what do you think will happen? There’s that ding-dong between boys and girls – who’ll blink first, who’ll say “I love you” first, who’s turn it is next… The artificiality of emotional metrics thus unleashed says a lot about the quality of such relationship! A deliberate suppression of emotions evinces insecurity. There’s no sincerity. Yet you expect sincere expressions of love. Can’t you see the selfishness? This is not about playing hard to get. It’s all about con...