Many homes today are full of strife, wrath and every other form of vices at the home-front. This is as a result of lack of Wisdom in living and managing the home. The absence or ignoring of the leading of the Holy Spirit in the home exposes the major players to making poor decisions that will be detrimental to the home. Both the man and the woman have a role to play. Below are listed the counsels needed by a wise woman:
1). Never raise your voice for any reason on your
husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov 15v1)
2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to
your family and friends. You are each other's
keeper.
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate
to your husband, you never know how your husband
will interpret them.(Prov 15v13)
4). Never compare your husband to other men,
you've no idea what their life is all about.
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because
you don't like them, the person who's supposed to
get rid of them is your husband.(Prov 11v22)
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not
your maid or anyone else.
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your
husband, people may do everything else but your
husband is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33)
8). Never blame your husband if he comes back
home empty handed. Rather encourage him.
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat
is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of
denying your husband sex.
12). Never answer for your husband in public
opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him
although he may answer for you in public opinion
polls.(Prov 31v23)
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front
of your children(Eph 4v31)
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your
husband before he checks out.(Prov 12v4)
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your
husband. Be discreet
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the
dressing table. Out there your husband is always
surrounded by women who took their time on their
looks.( 1 Sam 25v3)
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have
the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your
time looking up to them for a final word.(Luke
21v16)
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will
you still submit to him even if you earn more money
than him?
19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and
good listeners, never be too busy for him. (Gal 6v9)
20). If your idea worked better than his, never
compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork. (Gal
6v10)
21). Don't be too judgemental to your husband.(Eph
4v29)
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even
know that her body needs a bath.(Prov 24v27, Prov
20v13)
23). Does your husband like less cooked food?, try
to change your cooking.(Prov 31v14)
24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy
every moment including resources as it comes.(Luke 11v3)
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to
your husband and everyone entering your home.
Sweetness of attitude is true beauty. (Prov 31v11)
26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong
mental attitude about marriage.(Prov 22v14)
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the
value that you give it. Recklessness is
unacceptable.(Heb 13v4)
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord,
love your children and teach them well.(Prov 22v6)
29). You are never too old to influence your home.
Never reduce your care for your family for any
reason. (Prov 31v28)
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife, pray
always for your husband and family(1 Thess 5v17)
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